Sunday, October 9, 2016

Devotion: My times and seasons in His Hands...

But as for me, I trust in You, O Lord; I say, “You are my God.” My times are in Your hand; Deliver me from the hand of my enemies, and from those who persecute me.” Psa: 31: 14-15.

Conflicts seem to be the package of King David’s life and it seemed they would never end. It seemed to sap his energy and caused him to rely on another’s strength. 2 Samuel 22:1-51, talks about the testimony of King David in Lyrics with a great passion. King David presents these words to the Lord, because God has delivered him from the hand of his enemies in His time; from Absalom his own son, King Saul and also delivered him from the pit of despair. Some of us can empathize with King David, and maybe we are facing similar challenges. The focus of this writing is that we do have a hope, and the hope is in God and in His written Word, and in the power of His might.  

Any Christian who is attempting to live a life of self-sufficiency may not be able to relate to having a close personal relationship with God. Claiming God personally is the most precious right of any believer because of our Risen Savior Jesus Christ and blessed Calvary. What God has done through Jesus Christ, has given us the promise of ‘heir’ to His Kingdom as His adopted children. Please visit the following website to get a glimpse of the meaning of the word ‘heir’.

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heir meaning, definition, what is heir: a person who will legally receive money, property, or a title from another person…. Learn more.


The circumstances one faces may be completely different, but we may be in constant struggle. May be the enemy has succeeded in pushing you into a corner, or being held in a small place with little hope of escape; and in all this one can be strengthened by God’s Word. “I will be glad and rejoice in Your mercy, for You have considered my trouble; You have known my soul in adversities; and have not shut me up into the hand of the enemy; You have set my feet in a wide place.” Psa 31: 7-8.

The One who delivered David from his enemies was the object of his deepest emotions, and he shared an authentic relationship with the Living God. King David deeply loved God and he is the man after God’s own heart because of his deep desire to please God and love Him.

Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8; talks about ‘Times and Seasons’ and to realize God’s promises in our lives we should set ourselves to God’s heartbeat. When we talk about His heartbeat, it is His rhythm, sequence, order, structure and timings of our lives. If we miss His timing by moving too fast or too slow we will fall out of step, and that will affect everything else in our lives. Can we say that everything in our lives must be in God’s predetermined time so that we can be effective and fruitful? 

For every problem and situation in our lives there is a set time for its answer and God is very much involved in a believer’s situation. We may have to wait for God and step back because what He is going to do in our lives is a matter of timing and it is His timing. As we are anxiously asking God for an answer right now, He is thinking beyond our anxious heart about our requests or His purpose may be to fine-tune us through adversity. Out of our brokenness is coming something valuable – a man or a woman after His own heart!

With references to 2 Samuel 22 and Psalm 18, can we say; God is our strength when we are weak; He is our Rock when we are on a slippery slope; He is our Deliverer when we are fenced and trapped by our enemies; He is our strong Fortress when we are crumbling down to thousand pieces; He is our Refuge when our enemies chases us and conflicts seem to be part of our package of our life; He is our only shield when we are exposed to our enemies; and He is our Lord, our God when life spins out of control in all directions?
  
We all can say with one accord that focusing on God alone is hard when life issues spins on a down ward spiral and spins out of control. King David’s life continuously challenges each one of us about our walk with God. Are we becoming committed to God more and more? “For I have kept the ways of the Lord; and have not wickedly departed from my God?” 2 Sam 22; 22. 2 Samuel 22 shows the history of King David with God, and he has allowed God to reveal himself in many experiences of life.

Do we actively build a history with God? Have we done lots of living together with God ever since our salvation? Can we remember the various times and seasons we have experienced with the Living God as our Father? Can we genuinely say that our ‘Times are in His hand’? If we believe can we say, “Lord, teach me the timing and sequence You have set for my life so that I may dance to Your heartbeat, for me?”

Can we take encouragement in the following Word of God?
·    O, Lord, thou hast searched me, and known me. Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off. Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O Lord, thou knowest it altogether. Thou hast beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high, I cannot attain unto it.  Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence?  If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there.  If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea;  Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me. If I say, Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about me.  Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to thee. For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb.  I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.  My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.  How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!  If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee.  Surely thou wilt slay the wicked, O God: depart from me therefore, ye bloody men. For they speak against thee wickedly, and thine enemies take thy name in vain.  Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?  I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.  Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:  And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.



Book References:
1.The Matthew Henry Study Bible, ‘King James version’. The best of Matthew Henry’s Notes in a Handy One Volume Reference Bible. World Bible Publishers Inc; 1994, Iowa Falls, U.S.A.
2. Beth Moore. David Seeking A Heart Like His. Life Way Christian resources: Nashville, Tennessee, 2010, pgs: 206-210.
3. Jay E. Adams. ‘Critical Stages of Biblical Counseling’ Finishing Well, Breaking Through, Getting Started. (New Jersey: Zondervan, 2002, p.6-7)
4. Jay E. Adams. ‘How to Help People Change’ The Four-step Biblical Process. (Grand rapids: Zondervan, 1986, p. 20-28)
5. John F. MacArthur, JR. Wayne A. Mack & The Master’s College Faculty. ‘Introduction To Biblical Counseling’. “A Basic Guide To The Principles And Practice Of Counseling.” (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers,1994, P. 76-77)
6. Jay E. Adams. ‘The Christian Counselor’s Manual, The Practice of Nouthetic Counseling’.  (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1973, p. 15-16, 21-23; 92-97)
7. Jay E. Adams. ‘Lectures on Counseling.’ (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1978, p.192-203)

8.The Holy Bible, New King James version, Women of Destiny Bible. “Women Mentoring Women Through the Scriptures” A Spirit Filled Life Bible. Thomas Nelson Publishers, Nashville, Tennessee, Copyright 1982. 

Saturday, October 1, 2016

How do we understand the Sovereignty of God?

The theology of the ‘Doctrine of Sovereignty of God’ is one of the most comforting and enlivening truths which could help us with our worries, anxieties, fear, especially when we face the mountain of ‘unscalables’ in our lives. When clients come to me, I would ask them so many questions, to find out who they are, and about their present situation where they needed help. Their statements define themselves and I would listen to their answers. Let us see what God says, about Himself in His Word, by God’s own testimony. God’s own testimony is reliable because He is completely acquainted with His own nature, and God’s self-knowledge about Himself is without error. Above all, there is no reason why God would deceive us or confuse us about His purpose or power, so we can safely trust God’s testimony about Himself.
God is completely holy and it is not at all possible for Him to sin. He is perfectly holy, perfectly just, perfectly loving, and perfectly wise, He is the God of wisdom, majesty, honour and power. If He is anything less than the above He is not God, and He is not a celestial policeman and neither he is a malicious despot. When I travelled to Greece I have visited many of the Greek temples of gods and goddesses. Our Father in Heaven is not one of the Greek gods, who can be moody and temperamental and who would decide to mess with the lives of people for fun. Our God is the creator of heaven and earth and mankind who loves, mankind unconditionally to give His One and only Son for the remission of our sins and for the sins of the whole world. Let us see what the Word of God says about God.
God says, He controls and orchestrates every event of the world for His glory and honour; 1 Chro: 29:10-11; Psa: 103: 19; Prov: 16:33.
God can determine the times and season, the weather, the growth of crops, and the fall and rise of Kings and Kingdoms; Gen: 8:22; 1 King: 8:35; 2 Chro: 7:13-14; Amos: 4:7; Isa: 5:6; Hag: 1:10-11.
God determines the length of our lives; Job: 14:5; Psa: 68:20; Acts: 17: 26.
God does not need anything from us to enable Him to rule sovereignly; Acts: 17: 24-25.
Understanding God’s sovereignty is important to a believer, because God’s sovereignty is a safe harbor against fear, anxieties and worries. If we deny the sovereignty of God in all situations, circumstances and events, we can lose all the security. One had to come to the humbling position that every atom, in the universe is under His sovereign control and He has the power to turn things the way He wanted and He is perfectly just and holy as He testifies about Himself in His Word. Jesus Christ before He was crucified He prepared the Disciples for the trials, persecution, that the Disciples are going to face after His departure. The disciples could not understand then the events which are going to happen are within God’s sovereign control. “Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me. These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world;” Jn 16:32-33. Jesus Christ was telling them that His Disciples will desert him, and that is all within the Sovereign control of God, and not under the power of Judas, Pilate and the chief priests who had brought Jesus to trial. God was indeed in control of the Roman governor the Pilate, in control of the Pharisees, in control of Judas, and in control of the chief priests. No one absolutely no one will be able to overcome God and His plan, and Jesus wanted His Disciples to have peace, understanding God’s sovereignty in spite of the storm which will be raging soon around them.
Can we trust God, in our tribulations? Why does God allow tribulations if He is sovereign? The Bible tells us to rejoice in our sufferings, and this is especially very hard, when we are overwhelmed with fear of the sufferings and rejoicing in our suffering is abnormal for the fallen humanity. The truth of the matter is, that we are slowly being made to fit for heaven, and being prepared to experience the splendor, magnificence, the honor, and happiness of the eternal world. I am not trying to say, that we should all look for trials and persecutions around us all the time.  Suffering does this for us, and we have to understand God’s Word, in the light of eternity, and learning to trust God in the storm is a lesson, and is a process. The Word of God confirms this, For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory; While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal;” 2 Cori:4:17-18.  
If we look through the Scriptures, we find many stories of our Patriarchs, who have gone through much trials, and persecutions, and God had chosen them to fulfill many big things for His glory. Our Patriarchs, Abraham, Moses, Deborah, Jacob, Gideon, Barack, and Paul then Saul were some of the examples and there are many other examples and Bible is full of it. I also love the story of the founder of the Protestant Reformation, Martin Luther. In 1521, he was called to appear before a tribunal, and was commanded to retract his writings. Luther, wisely asked the church and the government officials, ‘a night’ to consider his answer. He wrestled the whole night with God, and when Luther met the next day, with the officials he said the following: “Unless you prove from the Bible that he had made wrong statements; he will not take back anything he has written.” God is a God of wisdom and majesty, and He does gives his wisdom to His children, when we genuinely ask of Him. Luther’s words, resounds through the ages for many martyrs when they stood before their persecutors! Beloved, when we face fears, worries, anxieties, fear of being persecuted for righteousness sake, we can take comfort, and refuge, and peace, with God, who gave His one and only Son for us; who still is ruling the universe and is Sovereign. May God be our safe harbor where we can anchor our faith and may He be our refuge. Now let us hear what God says for those who mourn in Isaiah 54.   
·         Sing, O barren, thou that didst not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud, thou that didst not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married wife, saith the Lord.  Enlarge the place of thy tent, and let them stretch forth the curtains of thine habitations: spare not, lengthen thy cords, and strengthen thy stakes;  For thou shalt break forth on the right hand and on the left; and thy seed shall inherit the Gentiles, and make the desolate cities to be inhabited.  Fear not; for thou shalt not be ashamed: neither be thou confounded; for thou shalt not be put to shame: for thou shalt forget the shame of thy youth, and shalt not remember the reproach of thy widowhood any more.  For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called. For the Lord hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God.  For a small moment have I forsaken thee; but with great mercies will I gather thee. In a little wrath I hid my face from thee for a moment; but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee, saith the Lord thy Redeemer.    For this is as the waters of Noah unto me: for as I have sworn that the waters of Noah should no more go over the earth; so have I sworn that I would not be wroth with thee, nor rebuke thee.  For the mountains shall depart, and the hills be removed; but my kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed, saith the Lord that hath mercy on thee. O thou afflicted, tossed with tempest, and not comforted, behold, I will lay thy stones with fair colours, and lay thy foundations with sapphires. And I will make thy windows of agates, and thy gates of carbuncles, and all thy borders of pleasant stones.  And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children. In righteousness shalt thou be established: thou shalt be far from oppression; for thou shalt not fear: and from terror; for it shall not come near thee. Behold, they shall surely gather together, but not by me: whosoever shall gather together against thee shall fall for thy sake.  Behold, I have created the smith that bloweth the coals in the fire, and that bringeth forth an instrument for his work; and I have created the waster to destroy.  No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is of me, saith the Lord.
Fear of God, is the beginning of all wisdom and it is an antidote against perplexing fear, anxiety and worry when trouble assails us. Godly reverence for our heavenly Father gives us hope when the storm rages around us. Prophet Habakkuk looks at the experiences of the church in the former days, and he was comforted when he saw trouble, agony and strife among Christian brothers, and was not without hope but was filled with holy joy and peace. He knew when all is gone from the nation, and from him, God is not gone and he pens the following:
·         Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation. The Lord God is my strength, and he will make my feet like hinds' feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places. To the chief singer on my stringed instruments; Hab 3:17-19.
Habakkuk’s prayer was that even when the vines and the fig trees are gone, the prosperity is gone, and the mirth of the carnal hearts are gone, still God is not gone; so we have all the reason to rejoice in the God of our salvation. When we meet the losses, and the crosses of this world, it is only the joy of the Lord, which keeps us moving forward. This is a great reason to rejoice in the eternal salvation and the faith in Lord Jesus Christ, the only Son of God prepares us for eternity. The name of Jesus which heals us of all wounds, sheds fragrance for our soul and gives us the hope for the heavenly crown. This is the one and only reason why we should all sit loosely on earthly possessions, material benefits, and comforts, and all earthly relationship ties. We are in a process; a process of learning continuously to place our trust in God, and not on our situations, whatever it may be. Habakkuk decided to trust God, even if it does not make sense to him.
Points to ponder when we face the ‘unscalables’ in our lives:
·         Understanding God’s view of the situation.
·         What does the Bible say about trials?
·         What does the Bible require of the believer’s way of life?
·         When everything fails, does God fail?
·         Remember God is Sovereign.
·         Always remember, that God can use all the failures around us for our good and for His glory.
·         Remember with the temptation, He also provides a way of escape.
·         Thanking God in our trials, and even for ungodly leaderships.
·         Continue to place our trust in God, and not on our circumstances.
·         Continuous dependence on God’s grace and for His help in our trials.
·         Change the way we react to our trials: how?
a.        How to be an example of giving a godly response?
b.      How to pray for different trials, and also for ungodly authorities over us?
c.       Focus on our work and God and not on the circumstances.
d.      Learning to respond as Christ did.
e.       Learning to do good and not evil.
·         With prayer and supplication present our requests to God in all circumstances.
·         Remember the God who can orchestrate the world events are still in control of our lives.
As Mathew Henry once said, the trials of a Saint are orchestrated by the counsels of God, and no one can add or delete from it. What one can do for that person in trial is to pray for them.
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Prayer is a powerful weapon against the inflation of worry, anxiety, and fear when one faces the storm in their lives and to acknowledge that God is Sovereign in our lives. When we stretch our minds in our fallenness that He does not care for our needs when we face the unscalables we are indeed wrong, because we are losing sight of the broader picture by focusing on minute details. Dark nights of failure, betrayal, sickness, and even in death, God still cares. When the desperation comes, and when we think God is silent, God is still acting. In our dark nights of silence, we all need reassurance just like Habakkuk;Behold ye among the heathen, and regard, and wonder marvelously: for I will work a work in your days, which ye will not believe, though it be told you;” Hab 1:5.  Below is a prayer to encourage our hearts.
Dear Father in heaven, in our fallenness and frailty, very often when troubles assail us we fail to realize Thou Art God Almighty, maker of heaven and earth and all its inhabitants. We fail to acknowledge that Thou hast made man in Thine image, and Thou hast seen each one of us, at the time of conception. This knowledge is beyond us, and we ask forgiveness for our lack of understanding. We want to acknowledge that Thou Art a Sovereign Lord, in all of our circumstances. When trials and difficulties come around us, still Thou art our God, the Father who love us with an everlasting love.
We acknowledge that Thou art preparing each one of us for Thine Heavenly Kingdom, to enjoy the glory, splendor, the majesty, and help each one of us to understand Thine everlasting love in the midst of our trials. Lord, give us grace so that we may understand that trials and difficulties prepares us to get an everlasting glimpse of Thine Kingdom. Give us grace so that we begin to understand the depth and width of Thine love. Thank You for giving Your Only Son, to die for us and go through severe trials while in this earth for our sake. Thank You for the Holy Spirit, the comforter, to comfort us when we are assailed by tribulations.
Jesus Christ our burden bearer we lift up our voices to Your throne room, so that You will bear the burden with us, because You said my yoke is light. We pray for those who need comfort, when faced with varied trials, and may the Spirit of God, the comforter, gives comfort to those who mourn. May their mourning be changed to dancing and joy. 

We acknowledge that Thou Art a Sovereign God, even when the storm rages around us, because You alone can calm the storm, and orchestrate events around us. We want to ascribe greatness to Your Holy Name. Thou art everlasting, and Your love never fails. Thou art good and there is none like Thee Oh! Lord. We pray that we trust Your Words, that You would carry us on eagles’ wings and make us shine like the sun, and carry us on the palm of His hands for Your glory and honour. In the Name of God the Father, God the Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit we pray, Amen. 
For further reading:

1. Millard J. Erickson. Christian Theology. Grand Rapids: Baker Book House: 1983-85. 
2. R.T. Kendall. Understanding Theology, Developing a Healthy Church in the 21st Century. 1996.
3. Jay E. Adams. A Theology of Christian Counseling, More than Redemption. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1979.
4. Louis Berkhof. Systematic Theology. Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1996.
5.  Robert P Lightner. Handbook of Evangelical Theology, Historical, Biblical, and Contemporary Survey and Review. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Book House, 1986.
6. Charles Ryrie. Basic Theology. Chicago: Moody Press, 1986, 1999.
7.  A. H. Strong. Systematic Theology. New Jersey: Fleming H. Revell Co, 1907.
8.  Wayne Grudem. Systematic Theology, An Introduction to Biblical Doctrine. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1994.
9. Steven W. Waterhouse. Not By Bread Alone, An Outlined Guide To Bible Doctrine. Amarillo: Westcliffe Press, 2007. 
10. John Theodore Muller, Th.D. Christian Dogmatics, A handbook of Doctrinal Theology for Pastors, Teachers, and Laymen.  St. Louis, Mo: Concordia Publishing House, 1934.  
11. Prayers To Move Your Mountains. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2000.
12. John White. Parables, the Greatest Stories ever Told. Illinois: Inter varsity Press, 1988, 1999.
13. ESV Study Bible. English Standard Version. Crossway Bibles, Wheaton, Illinois: Publishing ministry of Good News publishers, 2008.
14. The Matthew Henry Study Bible. King James Version. Iowa falls: World Bible Publishers, Inc. 1990.
15. Elyse Fitzpatrick. Overcoming Fear, Worry and Anxiety. Harvest House Publishers: Eugene, Oregon,2001. 

Where is God when I am in huge trials?

We may have sets of beliefs that govern our view of life, but does our belief about God, calm our fears? Do our beliefs stand the test of our trials, before the real God? Do our beliefs calm our fears, stand the test of our trials, especially when we face the kinds of troubles which are beyond us and overwhelm us, and motivates us to move forward in our faith walk, and our journey? In the insurmountable difficulties, and trials we begin to learn a lot and we begin to realize that the house on which we are standing may be something less than the reinforced concrete of Biblical truth. We come to the sobering reality, and the deepest part of us and everything within us begin to crumble, and we are totally broken and devastated before the Lord to know Him and to be known by Him. Is God still Sovereign? If God is really Sovereign, how does that really help us overcome our fears while we are facing the difficulties of our earthly life, which is filled with fear, anxieties and worries.

First of all let us look at the meaning of the word ‘Sovereign’  
sov·er·eign
noun
1.       1.
a supreme ruler, especially a monarch.
synonyms:
2.       2.
a former British gold coin worth one pound sterling, now only minted for commemorative purposes.
adjective
1.       1.
possessing supreme or ultimate power.
"in modern democracies the people's will is in theory sovereign"
synonyms:

Now let us look at the Biblical meaning of ‘Sovereignty’.
If you were to look up the word “sovereign” in the dictionary, you would find words and phrases like “superior,” “greatest,” “supreme in power and authority,” “ruler,” and “independent of all others” in its definition. But the way I like to explain God’s sovereignty best is simply to say, “God is in control.”
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Let us look at some of the real life scenarios which could be troubling us deeply:
·         Within a short period many Pastors in the church left, and there is no real Pastor where   people can go and share their grief, sorrow, trials, pain, joy and church is in tribulation. A church which is the so called community of believers has turned into a den of thieves, and for many the joy of going and worshipping is removed. The Word of God also says,      “Awake, O sword, against my shepherd, and against the man that is my fellow, saith the Lord of hosts: smite the shepherd, and the sheep shall be scattered: and I will turn mine hand upon the little ones;” Zech: 13:7. But this has become increasingly difficult for some and the present situation has become very dark and gloomy. Many feared that God is punishing the church, and some thought it was their problems, and things were spinning out of control.  People were discouraged, friendships were being torn apart, and the ministry of many Pastors were thrown apart and there was no stability in the church and in the leadership. Now, where is God in all this? And some are even forced to think that does God really care. Where is hope for the believers?
·         In Christian families tragedy after tragedy arises and crisis followed one after another. Life threatening illnesses, bad news from the Doctor’s office for a mother for her children can devastate anyone. One can begin to think and wonder if they had believed in vain though they were Christians. One can also think if there is a God, was He really Sovereign, really in control of all these calamities. Hearts can become calloused because of the difficult situations, and make one wonder “Is God sitting impotently in heaven, just wringing His hands over all the troubles of my family, even though I call upon Him daily to rescue me”? The normal questions which could rage in our hearts are: Where is God now? Whom can we trust now? Is God watching? Has God made another mistake?
·         A Christian running the business faithfully, putting all the initial investments, time, energy, people potential and expecting return of the capital investment, turning into another tragedy. The business entering into a dark hole, and the employees had to be retrenched, finally the employees suing the Christian director who has labored for the business endlessly. Again the friendships were torn into pieces and relationships which were treasured were destroyed to great lengths, and the peace and joy once cherished were gone for ever. Does not God know that this business would turn into a tragedy? Why would he allow to invest the time and, money and energy if He knows that this is what is going to happen? The person can also wonder if they had missed God’s will in starting the business.
What does God want us to learn from this tragedy of loss?
·         When one accepts Jesus as Lord and Saviour, our sins are wiped out completely even though it is scarlet red, it becomes white as snow according to God’s Word. A person going through HIV, because of past sins may wonder whether God has really forgiven them or not? This can even force one to think “Is God really Sovereign, and if He is He could have kept her from this terrible sickness.” The emotional turmoil, and the roller coaster of emotions rising within a person, and the deep question within rising, “where is God”?
·         I have known of a Christian elderly woman, who lost her five children and she is living with her husband who is not an encourager in her walk with the Lord. Also I have known many godly women, who have lost their children for the world completely and agonizing. What about godly women who were persecuted, and crushed by their church going religious husbands who cannot share their heart aches with anyone else? Think about youths from Christian families, who are very involved in illicit sex and addictions of various kinds; whose parents are in continuous tears……where is God?
·         What about ungodly authorities around us? It could be the systems around us, our work place, the nations and their governments, our family unit as a whole, or even ungodly husbands. What does God want one to learn?
·         Let us also look at a scenario from the Bible, where the prophet Habakkuk is crying out to God. “The burden which Habakkuk the prophet did see.  Lord, how long shall I cry, and thou wilt not hear! even cry out unto thee of violence, and thou wilt not save! Why dost thou shew me iniquity, and cause me to behold grievance? for spoiling and violence are before me: and there are that raise up strife and contention.  Therefore the law is slacked, and judgment doth never go forth: for the wicked doth compass about the righteous; therefore wrong judgment proceedeth;” Hab:1:1-4. Here the prophet is complaining to God, about the violence done for the abuse of justice among his own people and the prophet was troubled by many hardships which the good people of the nation had to face.

I can keep on writing about various scenarios, real life threatening issues, jail sentences, addiction to drugs to devastation, strife, divisions, the law is slacked for judgment and alcoholism in Christian families.  Maybe we are facing one of the above problems, or may be all of the problems. Where is God in all these situations? Is God really Sovereign?  
Please join with me in my explanation and let us try to understand where we are and what we are going to learn. I have a diagram below and I am trying to explain the diagram below: The (x axis) which is horizontal intersects with the (y axis) which is perpendicular and divides into 4 Quadrants.
1st Quadrant: the top corner on the right (+x, +y); period where all is good.
Sometimes life is good and Bible tells us there are times and seasons in people’s lives; Ecc:3
2nd Quadrant: the one below the above on the right (+x, -y); issues can be managed.
Life goes on and issues are manageable and we keep moving forward.
3rd Quadrant: the one on the left above (_x, +y); issues can be solved.
All of us wants to move forward and we try to manage things on our human effort, and capabilities.
4th Quadrant: the one below on the left (-x, -y); totally helpless, and hopeless.
Now, things are getting harder, and we could not manage with our capacities, and we needed much help, we tried, and we failed and we are helpless. We are almost coming to the end of ourselves, and we are beginning to wonder if there is a God, why He should allow such difficulties in our lives. When we are pressured and crushed from all directions we may fall into the 4th Quadrant on the left side which is below (-x, -y).

Let us look briefly at the following mathematical Quadrants:



 Another diagram to illustrate our overwhelming situation would be a valley within a valley or many valleys within a larger valley. When our problems overwhelm us, we could be sitting in a larger valley with many valleys within it. We really wanted to come out and we want to enjoy the peace and the joy, but it is humanly impossible. We want someone to deliver us, and our heart wrenching cry is, God deliver me.” Can You please deliver me? Are You there? Are You Sovereign?
Below is a picture of valleys inside a bigger valley. 


Valleys within a Valley


If we are in a difficult situation like our Patriarchs like Abraham, Moses, Isaac, Jacob and also like our prophets in the Bible, we can go to God in prayer with our questions and struggles. God is able to help us in our struggles, and answer us in our struggles with authority through His Word. May be we can even think that we have no hope in our situations and it is extremely hard to understand that God is good. But, God wants us to understand that He is in control even in the most ‘unscalable’ situations. Please follow my next blog Sovereignty of God for more clarity.   
For further reading:

1. Millard J. Erickson. Christian Theology. Grand Rapids: Baker Book House: 1983-85. 
2. R.T. Kendall. Understanding Theology, Developing a Healthy Church in the 21st Century. 1996.
3. Jay E. Adams. A Theology of Christian Counseling, More than Redemption. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1979.
4. Louis Berkhof. Systematic Theology. Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1996.
5.  Robert P Lightner. Handbook of Evangelical Theology, Historical, Biblical, and Contemporary Survey and Review. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Book House, 1986.
6. Charles Ryrie. Basic Theology. Chicago: Moody Press, 1986, 1999.
7.  A. H. Strong. Systematic Theology. New Jersey: Fleming H. Revell Co, 1907.
8.  Wayne Grudem. Systematic Theology, An Introduction to Biblical Doctrine. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1994.
9. Steven W. Waterhouse. Not By Bread Alone, An Outlined Guide To Bible Doctrine. Amarillo: Westcliffe Press, 2007. 
10. John Theodore Muller, Th.D. Christian Dogmatics, A handbook of Doctrinal Theology for Pastors, Teachers, and Laymen.  St. Louis, Mo: Concordia Publishing House, 1934.  
11. Prayers To Move Your Mountains. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2000.
12. John White. Parables, the Greatest Stories ever Told. Illinois: Inter varsity Press, 1988, 1999.
13. ESV Study Bible. English Standard Version. Crossway Bibles, Wheaton, Illinois: Publishing ministry of Good News publishers, 2008.
14. The Matthew Henry Study Bible. King James Version. Iowa falls: World Bible Publishers, Inc. 1990.

15. Elyse Fitzpatrick. Overcoming Fear, Worry and Anxiety. Harvest House Publishers: Eugene, Oregon,2001.