Sunday, June 9, 2013

Contentment….that lasts!


Once the millionaire Bernard Baruch was asked, how much money does a rich man need to be satisfied?” and Baruch replied, “Just a million more than he has.” I have seen educated people to whom God has given enormous wealth, good family, good position in the society and yet they are not contended and they want more! They have no peace within them, and they tend to compare themselves with people who are given more and they want more! Alas….they fail to realize that a shroud, a coffin, and a grave are all that the richest man in the world can carry from his ‘thousands.’

Contentment - happiness with one's situation in life
Happiness - emotions experienced when in a state of well-being
Satisfaction - the contentment one feels when one has fulfilled a desire, need, or expectation; "the chef tasted the sauce with great satisfaction"
Discontent, discontentedness, discontentment - a longing for something better than the present situation. 

Contentment cannot come from material things, for they can never satisfy the heart. Only God of the universe can satisfy the longings of the heart, and when we have God, we have all we need, because He is the only one who is going to be with us everlastingly. All the material things will decay, or when we leave the earthly tent we have to leave it all! The Bible asks us to compare ourselves only with Jesus Christ who owned nothing and His goal was to fulfill the will of the Father. This is a very high standard and a holy calling.

The opposite of contentment is covetousness which is the desire for more, whether it is needed or not. “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Heb 13:5. Covetousness is an overeager desire of the wealth of this world, envying those who have more than us and this is SIN. Once we understand this is sin, it should be subdued because it may lurk in the heart in the secret chambers and shows it ugly head in odd places, we would be in a downward spiral of discontent and this would eventually destroys our soul!

A good way to be contended is to know whom we believe: and trust Him for today and tomorrow. He is God of the present, past and the future and He is Omniscient. Be satisfied with such things that we have: present things; for past things can not be recalled and future things are only in the Hands of a mighty God! Sometimes what God gives for each day may fall short of our expectation, but be contend with what you have for that day.

6 “Now godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain[a] we can carry nothing out. And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows”.1 Tim 6:6-10.

If God gives us the necessary support of life, we ought to be content with that. We may not have dainty food and costly raiment, but if we have food and raiment convenient for us, we ought to be content. If we look around, those who have set their hearts on enormous wealth of this world have fallen into temptation and snare. When the love of money lurks in the hearts, Satan sees which way their lust will carry them, and soon bait his hook accordingly. Men of God should be taken up with the things of God, and the Word of God asks us to flee from the worldly things, and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience and meekness.

Godliness and contentment are indeed rare gems, but since they can only be found inseparably combined, they are the rarest of gem to be found in man. "Hearken, my beloved brethren, Hath not God chosen the poor of this world rich in Faith, and heirs of the Kingdom which He hath promised to them that love Him?" (James 2:5).

Unlike the covetous of the world, Christians are to be content with their lot in life-- rich or poor, pleasant ways or a difficult road-- since they understand their physical circumstances to be both God's opportunity to mold them and reach the world. "To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some" (1Corinthians 9:22). Once it is fully realized that your physical circumstances ought to be treated only as secondary to your spiritual necessities, i.e., "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and His Righteousness; and all these things [food, clothing, shelter] shall be added unto you" (Matthew 6:33), then it becomes immediately possible to be truly content.

How do we  apply the above principle to our heart?
 
On a scale of 1(least) to 10 (most), how content are we with the things we have right now? Let us create an antidote for discontent, by completing the sentence below:
“When I am discontent next time, I will remember ------------, and then I will-------------.”


References: 

1. Dr. Ed Murphy. The Handbook for Spiritual Warfare. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1992, 1996, pgs: 432-436.

2. Jay E. Adams. Critical Stages of Biblical Counseling, Finishing Well, Breaking Through, Getting Started.  New Jersey: Zondervan, 2002.
3. Jay E. Adams. How to Help People Change, The Four-step Biblical Process. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1986.
4. John F. MacArthur, JR. Wayne A. Mack & The Master’s College Faculty. Introduction To Biblical Counseling, A Basic Guide To The Principles And Practice Of Counseling. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1994.
5. Jay E. Adams. Lectures on Counseling. Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1978, p.192-203.
6. The Holy Bible, New King James Version, Women of Destiny Bible. Women Mentoring women Through the Scriptures, A Spirit Filled Life Bible. Nashville, Tennessee: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1982.
7. Warren W. Wiersbe. Devotions for confidence & Integrity, Hebrews & John. Colorado, Springs, Colorado: Honor Books, @2006.

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