Sunday, November 17, 2013

Litmus test for relationship with God


Definition of litmus test (n) Bing Dictionary

lit·mus test

       1. test determined by single factor: a test in which a single factor determines the outcome

 2. test to identify acid or base: a test in which litmus is used to find out if something is an acid or a base


Prayer is a kind of litmus test of our relationship with God, and very often our prayers reveal who and what is most important to us. They also expose our inner most feelings our thoughts about ourselves and God. For example Psalm 35 is a plea for protection by David and it is an appeal to God concerning his integrity and the justice of his cause. In other words we can say prayer is raising our mind and heart to God and the first part is generally easier for any one than the second part. What I intended to say here is that prayer involves our whole person and that is mind, heart and emotions, in a relationship with God.

Prayer is an invocation or act that seeks to activate a rapport with a deity, an object of worship, or a spiritual entity through deliberate communication. Prayer can be a form of religious practice, may be either individual or communal and take place in public or in private. It may involve the use of words or song. When language is used, prayer may take the form of a hymn, incantation, formal creed, or a spontaneous utterance in the praying person. There are different forms of prayer such as petitionary prayer, prayers of supplication, thanksgiving, and worship/praise. Thus, people pray for many reasons such as personal benefit or for the sake of others1.

Tefilah: Prayer


The Hebrew word for prayer is tefilah. It is derived from the root Pe-Lamed-Lamed and the word l'hitpalel, meaning to judge oneself. This surprising word origin provides insight into the purpose of Jewish prayer. The most important part of any Jewish prayer, whether it be a prayer of petition, of thanksgiving, of praise of G-d, or of confession, is the introspection it provides, the moment that we spend looking inside ourselves, seeing our role in the universe and our relationship to G-d2.

I want to take an earthly example to bring my point regarding our relationship with God. Let us think of a very close friendship or marriage and we know instinctively that a key relationship in our life is a matter of the heart and the other person in marriage the spouse is important to us. If this relationship is the one that is growing in love, the other is one I want to serve and this comes naturally and I want to give myself for. Relationships are hard to work with because it involves time and this will fade if we have no continuing interest in spending time with and connect with the other. In marriage, intimacy in the bedroom is an important, but a smaller part of the relationship bond and if the hearts are not connecting in relationship we fall apart and this intimacy in bedroom can be affected and becomes problematic. We see that communication is the mark of relationship and for husbands and wives it is recommended to stay together on the earth in the natural sense and they are to exhibit the highest level of relationship.

What do we understand by the following conversation? (Abraham Intercedes for Sodom- Gen: 18:16-33)


16 Then the men rose from there and looked toward Sodom, and Abraham went with them to send them on the way. 17 And the Lord said, “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am doing, 18 since Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? 19 For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice, that the Lord may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him.” 20 And the Lord said, “Because the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grave, 21 I will go down now and see whether they have done altogether according to the outcry against it that has come to Me; and if not, I will know.”

22 Then the men turned away from there and went toward Sodom, but Abraham still stood before the Lord. 23 And Abraham came near and said, “Would You also destroy the righteous with the wicked? 24 Suppose there were fifty righteous within the city; would You also destroy the place and not spare it for the fifty righteous that were in it? 25 Far be it from You to do such a thing as this, to slay the righteous with the wicked, so that the righteous should be as the wicked; far be it from You! Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?”26 So the Lord said, “If I find in Sodom fifty righteous within the city, then I will spare all the place for their sakes.”27 Then Abraham answered and said, “Indeed now, I who am but dust and ashes have taken it upon myself to speak to the Lord: 28 Suppose there were five less than the fifty righteous; would You destroy all of the city for lack of five?”

So He said, “If I find there forty-five, I will not destroy it. 29 And he spoke to Him yet again and said, “Suppose there should be forty found there?” So He said, “I will not do it for the sake of forty.”30 Then he said, “Let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak: Suppose thirty should be found there?” So He said, “I will not do it if I find thirty there.”31 And he said, “Indeed now, I have taken it upon myself to speak to the Lord: Suppose twenty should be found there?” So He said, “I will not destroy it for the sake of twenty.”32 Then he said, “Let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak but once more: Suppose ten should be found there?” And He said, “I will not destroy it for the sake of ten.” 33 So the Lord went His way as soon as He had finished speaking with Abraham; and Abraham returned to his place.

The above conversation definitely talks about Abraham’s deep relationship with God and Abraham considers God as his best friend and he keeps on talking and bargaining as if God is his friend. As Christians we are privileged people and we can pray to communicate with God and more we pray we are building relationship with God and we begin to understand Him. Apostle Paul mentions that praying consists of two components which is praying with understanding and praying with spirit; 1 Cori 14:2; 14-15, 18. This means our whole being is involved in prayer, which directly engages our renewed spirit from the Holy Spirit of God. This is not possible without our relationship with God, and there is a definite mind and heart connection while we pray.

How could prayer be a relationship with God, if it only remains a lifting of our minds to God?  We need very special times of intimacy with God, but that time needs to be prepared for and built up to.  To enrich our relationship with God, we have to engage our hearts and we have to learn to love Him with all of heart and mind, soul and strength. This does not come naturally to a fallen man, because we want to do it on our own, and this relationship of intimacy is a process and it is a life long journey. The more we talk to Him, depend on Him, and involve Him in our life, we begin to understand who He is and we will be able to trust Him despite our situations. That involves finding intimacy with God in the midst of our everyday busy lives, much like we do with the other important relationships of our lives. 

If the above article stirs a desire for that kind of deep relationship with God, one place to begin is to let God tell us about how much He loves us.  We will never know what God is telling us unless we read His Words and God says, "You are precious in my eyes and I love you." Isaiah 43:4. If we are open to God's expressions of affection towards us that can open our hearts to stir up affection in the form of grateful response.  Remember it only takes a spark to get the fire going and we need to take ongoing care to keep the fire from going out if that relationship is to continue. The Word of God, Spirit of God, and people of God will help us to build that lasting relationship with God and help us improve our prayer life. Our journey is very personal to Jesus Christ and Prayer is indeed a litmus test which assesses our relationship with Him.  With special care, it can become a long lasting, warm and comforting, life-long relationship.  

End Notes:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer
Prayer is an invocation or act that seeks to activate a rapport with a deity, an object of worship, or a spiritual entity through deliberate communication. Prayer can ...
Tefilah: Prayer. The Hebrew word for prayer is tefilah. It is derived from the root Pe-Lamed-Lamed and the word l'hitpalel, meaning to judge oneself.
 
Website References:

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One of my personal testimonies on the power of prayer.

(This article was published in Bay View Glen alliance Church, Toronto, Anglican Orthodox Church, North Carolina and some other churches in their websites and this is only to bring God glory and honor)
 
The Howrah Express


While in India – February 2009
 
                                                                               

 

 

On February, I fell very ill in Andhra Pradesh, India while on a mission trip. I kindly asked Bishop John to book me a first-class train ticket back to my mother’s house (a little south of Andhra), so that I could rest while Joshua can finish the mission work around the area. Since it was a last-minute request, Bishop John asked his MP friend to get a confirmed ticket for me. During this period, I was praying and asking the Lord whether or not I should leave Andhra at this time. Shortly into my prayer, I had a vision which troubled me. I saw myself sitting in the train alone, and underneath my seat was a huge, coiled cobra. When I saw this vision, my spirit was greatly distressed, prompting me to question the Lord over and over, as to whether I should leave Andhra at this time. Over the course of the next few hours, my spirit wrestled with the Lord in prayer. I asked Him many times to remove the vision from my mind if it wasn’t of Him. However, the more I talked to the Lord, the more the vision persisted, and I began to feel incredibly uncomfortable. Even during a ministry sharing in a little village in Andhra, the image of the serpent kept bothering my spirit to the point of utter distress.


          It was 2:30pm in the afternoon when Bishop John got back to me. He asked if I was all packed and ready to go, because the Howrah Express was leaving at 5:30pm. There were many people in the room when he asked me this, and there was an indirect pressure for me to go. Since much effort was yielded, and higher connections were sought in order to get the confirmed ticket so quickly, I was greatly pressured into agreeing. However, I paused and said, “Cancel the ticket, somehow I will pull along and finish this with God’s strength.” Almost instantly, I felt a great peace within myself. However, the people around me stared with great surprise, and it was evident that they were puzzled. I was physically a mess; I couldn’t eat anything, I was nauseated, and I was literally surviving on bottled water!

After a long, sleepless night, the morning came as bright as ever. Shaking with a bottle of water in my hands, I picked up the telephone, only to hear my mom’s voice on the other end. A little surprised, she asked me why I wasn’t back at home. Without much thought, I explained the previous night’s events, starting from the Howrah Express ticket to the troubling vision. After a long, albeit hesitant pause, my mother sighed heavily. She finally said, “Today’s newspaper has an article about the Howrah Express. That same train derailed, 15 coaches collapsed, 53 people died, and 50 more were injured. The rescue team is still on the process of pulling out dead bodies, and the train service has been suspended!” There was a deep quietness from both ends, for what could only have been hours on end. As if finally waking up from the world’s worst dream, my mom said, “You are precious and God knows how to protect His own; what a miraculous way of protection He’s thrown your way.”

            Later that same day, I called Bishop John and his family in Andhra. Thanks to the papers and the morning news, they had already been aware of the whole situation without me uttering a single word. We prayed together and shortly after, Bishop John shared this testimony with more that 500 people in a prayer service. In their language, Telungu, the people rejoiced to the Lord, singing “Hallelujah, Praise the Lord! God is mighty, and He is powerful. God chooses to speak to His people in His own way, and no man can limit His ways. “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, nor the mind perceived, what the Lord has prepared for His chosen.” 

With great thanks to the Lord Almighty,
~ Dr. Elizabeth Thambiraj

Websites below show pictures of derailed train:

Howrah-Madras Express derails. Chennai. Howrah. Tamil Nadu. West Bengal. Indian Railways. Thread Tools Display Modes. ... #5 Feb 15th, 2009, 10:48. bobby2003; View ...

Train services resumed in Howrah-Chennai route February 15th, 2009 - 6:26 pm ... High-level inquiry to probe Coromandel Express derailment - Feb 14, 2009; Jat ...

 

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