Friday, December 6, 2013

Abandoned and rejected….


This article is for some one who is going through frail state of helplessness, hopelessness, despair and having the feelings of rejection, and abandonment. Dear friend this journey could be a very lonely walk and waves of anger, discouragement, and doubt could plague you to the utmost point of despair. Even if you are in a crowd or in a party there could be a continuing gnaw away at your heart as though you have a terminal illness. You may even question, is your life worth continuing?

What is the meaning of abandonment?

a·ban·doned

1. forsaken or deserted: an abandoned building; an abandoned kitten.

2. unrestrained or uncontrolled; uninhibited: She danced with abandoned enthusiasm.

3. utterly lacking in moral restraints; shameless; wicked: an abandoned and dissolute ruler.

 
Abandonment and rejection are not easy to handle but could be handled Biblically with the tremendous grace of God. There is always a connection between the mind and the heart and very often that becomes a place for Satan to work to destroy any one.  "As a Man Thinketh" is a literary essay by James Allen, published in 1902. The title is influenced by a verse in the Bible from the Book of Proverbs, chapter 23, verse 7: “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” This book, written in terms of the responsibility assumption, opens with the statement:

Mind is the Master power that moulds and makes,

And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes

The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills,

Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills: —

He thinks in secret, and it comes to pass:

Environment is but his looking-glass‑1.

Now the point and the encouragement I am bringing forth in this article is, if there is much upheaval; there should be much comfort some where. “Comfort, yes, comfort My people! Says your God; Isaiah 40:1; (NKJV). God’s People Are Comforted. William Sanford in his fascinating book Great personalities of the Old Testament mentioned that Isaiah the prophetic book was great for two reasons.

a.       he lived in momentous days especially in critical days of international upheaval.

      b.   he wrote what many consider being the greatest book in the Old Testament.

As we study this book we will get to know what this outstanding prophet is saying, and also we meet mighty Kings and rulers of his time. We will witness the rise and fall of mighty Kingdoms and Kings, and we see the Hand of the Lord chastening and restoring God’s people. One of the greatest themes of this book is the suffering servant, the Lord Jesus Christ. We come to the knowledge and understanding of the suffering servant, how He does the will of the Father, and came to the world to suffer and die for the sins of the whole world.  

It is a great comfort when we read Isaiah chapter 53, on “the suffering servant.” For a person who is suffering it was the greatest comfort to know that Jesus was rejected, even by the closest friends, family, and even all the people whom He helped and at a time he needed the most. “He was despised and rejected” Isa: 53:3.  The Matthew Henry one of the greatest Theologians of 1600’s explains that Jesus was abandoned and abhorred and he became a reproach to all men. In other words, Jesus became one that men would be shy of keeping company and he had no self-esteem. Many hid their faces from Him, because he was considered as a bad man. Despite the love he showed and the lives He touched, they denied Him, betrayed Him, and they gave up on Him.

‘He opened not his mouth’ Isa: 53: 7; Jesus Christ freely offered himself to suffer and die for us in perfect accordance with His Father’s will. We know from God’s Word that He grew in stature and God’s wisdom. By His wisdom he could have evaded this deathly sentence; and by his power he could have resisted this kind of brutal execution. But he went to the cross just like a lamb being led to the slaughter house without any reluctance and difficulty. This denotes not only His meekness under reproach but his will in compliance with His father’s will; But I, like a deaf man, do not hear; And I am like a mute who does not open his mouth; Psa:38:13.

Plod while we wait! What is the meaning of plod?

Definition of plod (vi)Bing Dictionary
plod
  1. walk heavily: to walk with a slow heavy tread
  2. work slowly but steadily: to work slowly but steadily, especially on something uninteresting or laborious
  3. slow heavy steps: a walk with slow heavy steps

Synonyms: trudge, slog, tread, traipse, lumber, tramp, clump, clomp, walk

God is able to understand how we feel some times, and He is the only one who is able to scale the unscalable. If we trust in our own strength we fail miserably and if we wait on the Lord He is able to renew our strength and supply our mental, emotional and spiritual make up.  “But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint”. Isaiah 40:3; (NKJV). This means hope in hopelessness and this involves meditating on His character, and His promises, praying and glorifying Him. Does this come naturally to a fallen man? Of course not and this renewing of our minds means to “exchange” as taking off old clothes and putting on new; 2 Cori 12:1-10. In this process of exchange we are slowly changing our weaknesses for God’s power as we wait upon Him. God’s Spirit is available and with His help we refuse to allow the enemy to sow seeds of unforgiveness, bitterness, vengeance and hatred which could also eventually lay foundation for abandonment and rejection.

God’s power enables us to soar; when there is a crisis situation it is very much harder to walk in the ordinary pressures of life than to fly like the eagle. William Carey the father of modern missions once said, “I can plod and that is my only genius; I can persevere in any pursuit and to this I owe everything.” When we read Hebrews chapter 11, the greatest heroes of faith are not always those who seem to be soaring, but the ones who are faithfully plodding! One thing is for sure those heroes of faith had the vision of God’s unconditional love and acceptance. We can even say, blessed are the plodders with God’s help, because they finally arrive at the destination.

        End Notes:
 
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/As_a_Man_Thinketh
The title is influenced by a verse in the Bible from the Book of Proverbs, chapter 23, verse 7: “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”

Website References:

dictionary.reference.com/browse/abandoned
adjective 1. forsaken or deserted: an abandoned building; an abandoned kitten. 2. unrestrained or uncontrolled; uninhibited: She danced with abandoned enthusiasm. 3 ...

a·ban·doned    (-b n d nd) adj. 1. Deserted; forsaken. 2. Exuberantly enthusiastic. 3. Recklessly unrestrained. abandoned [əˈbændənd] adj. 1. deserted an abandoned ...

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