Today's blog is about guilt and the difference between "Psychological and Theological guilt."
Guilt: Definition
The dictionary defines guilt as, “Remorse and
regret, caused by having committed an offence, crime, violation, or wrong, esp.
against moral, religious or penal law; justly subject to a certain accusation
or penalty.”1
Guilt is caused by breaking a law which the Bible calls sin; falling short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). Since one is declared ‘guilty’ or ‘not guilty,’ it is therefore not a feeling but a status we have because of sin or breaking a law. However, being guilty is usually accompanied by emotions of regret, inadequacy, unworthiness, remorse, embarrassment, shame, and blame-consequences that are painful. Unresolved guilt does have the power to destroy one´s life emotionally, physically, and spiritually, and I will explore this part at a later point.
Psychological and Theological guiltSatan accusing us: Psychological guilt is the
internalization of the emotional experience of, for example, being rejected or
shamed by one´s parents, or some one closer. It involves self-rejection (“I´m not worthy”) or
self-shame (“I always blow it”). Psychological guilt often leads to
self-punishment (such as cutting)2 and self-denial as an attempt to
find relief, which turns out to be not a relief at all. Sadly, destructive
thoughts such as “I deserve punishment,” or “I don´t deserve to live” are the
motivation for a shockingly high percentage of people who see their only way
out of their shame and guilt.
In one's despair in
attempting to find relief, even committing, or wanting to commit suicide seem to be the inward thought process in some individuals. However, nowhere in the New Testament
is psychological guilt regarded as a desirable or constructive feeling. In
fact, Paul says that worldly sorrow leads to death, but godly sorrow (i.e.,
theological guilt) can lead to life (2 Cor. 7:10).3
The root of psychological
guilt is often the ‘diablo,’ which is the Greek word for Satan.4 In
Zechariah 3:1 and Revelation 12:10 we learn that he is also called "the
accuser of the brethren."
The Holy Spirit convicting
us: Theological guilt is
the Holy Spirit convicting us of breaking God’s law as it is recorded in the
Bible. This leads to the feeling of having failed in one’s relationship with
God. Dealing with it in the proper way leads to reconciliation and restoration
of a full relationship with God and others.5 On the other hand,
rejecting the Holy Spirit´s guidance leads to the hardening of our hearts
(Hebrews 3:15) and grieving of the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30).
1The
American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Houghton
Mifflin Company, 2004. Article “guilty” was accessed on 10 Dec. 2009.
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2William
T. Kirwan, Biblical Concepts for Christian Counseling,(Grand Rapids:
Baker Book House, 1984), 197.
3Ibid..
4The
American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language
5William
T. Kirwan, Biblical Concepts for Christian Counseling,198.
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